massage · Amsterdam · From €360
Couples massage in Amsterdam when one of you is the nervous one
A couples booking is arranged one of two ways. One therapist with the two of you is 360 euros an hour, and two therapists, one each, is 720. The distinction matters more than the figures, because the two produce quite different evenings: one shared focus in the first case, two parallel sessions in the second. The thing worth saying on this site is that couples bookings very often have an asymmetry in them. One of you wanted this and the other agreed to it, or one of you is entirely relaxed and the other has been quietly dreading it. That asymmetry is ordinary, it is worth naming in the thread, and it changes how the hour is arranged rather than whether it happens.
how it is given
What it asks of the room and of you
Couples Massage in full
Where it comes from
Side by side treatment rooms are a spa invention of the late twentieth century, built around the observation that people book more readily in pairs than alone. The outcall version inherits the idea and loses the architecture, which is a real difference: a spa has two tables in a purpose-built room, and a hotel room has one bed and a floor. Everything practical about arranging a couples booking in a private room follows from that single fact, and it is why the room details matter more here than for any other format except the soapy one.
The technique
With one therapist, the work alternates in stretches long enough to settle rather than swapping constantly, and the transitions are deliberate so that neither person is left waiting in an obvious way. With two, the pair work independently rather than in synchrony, because forcing two sessions to match produces a performance rather than a massage. Surfaces are chosen for access on both. Where one partner has named a sore area, a scar or a mobility limit in the thread, it applies to that person's session only and is handled without any of it being discussed across the room.
What to expect
More set-up than a single booking, and more room needed. Where two therapists are working, the arrangement is usually two surfaces, which in a hotel room commonly means the bed and a floor arrangement side by side. Each therapist states what her own session includes and where her own limits are, in her own words, at the start of the visit, and those statements are independent of each other. With one therapist shared, the structure alternates and the pacing is agreed at the start. In both versions the opening is slower than a single booking, because two people settle at different speeds and the slower of the two sets the pace.
Who it suits
A couple who want a shared hour rather than two separate bookings. A couple where one of you is nervous and would rather not be the only one in the room being touched. It suits least a small room with no clear floor, and a couple where one partner has not actually agreed to it, which is worth settling between yourselves before anything is written down rather than afterwards.
Benefits
The shared version gives a couple a common experience with a single focus in the room, which is the thing most couples say they were actually after. The one-each version gives both people a full session without either having to wait. For a couple where one partner is self-conscious, the second version is frequently the kinder arrangement, because attention is not moving back and forth and nobody is lying there being observed while the other is worked on.
At your address
Couples massage in Amsterdam is arranged outcall to hotel rooms and apartments across the centre, at 360 euros an hour with one therapist and 720 with two, and arrival forty to sixty minutes after the hour is agreed. Say in the first message that there are two of you, because it changes the room as well as the figure. Schiphol is arranged separately, and everyone in the room is twenty-one or over.
Length
An hour is short for two people once the setting up is counted. Ninety minutes with one therapist is 540, and with one each 1,080. Two hours with one therapist is 720 and with one each 1,440. The eight hour block is 2,500 for a couple sharing a therapist and 5,760 with one each, and both are arranged well ahead because diaries and a room have to agree.
Related formats
- Format
- Couples Massage
- Family
- massage
- Origin
- Adapted from traditional couples' spa programs
- Lengths
- 60 min 90 min 2 hours 3 hours
- Given
- Outcall only
- Arrival
- 40 to 60 min
- Guests
- Twenty-one or over
the figures
One guest, one therapist
The figures
| 1 hour, couple, one therapist | €360 |
|---|---|
| 90 minutes, couple, one therapist | €540 |
| 2 hours, couple, one therapist | €720 |
| 3 hours, couple, one therapist | €1,080 |
| Overnight (8h), couple, one therapist | €2,500 |
| 1 hour, couple, two therapists | €720 |
| 90 minutes, couple, two therapists | €1,080 |
| 2 hours, couple, two therapists | €1,440 |
| 3 hours, couple, two therapists | €2,160 |
| Overnight (8h), couple, two therapists | €5,760 |
asked first
Put to the house before a first booking
Questions
One of us is much more nervous than the other. How should we book it?
Two therapists, one each, is usually the easier arrangement, because nobody is lying there being watched while the other is worked on and the attention does not move between you. Write the asymmetry into the thread in one line. The pacing is then set by the person who needs it slower.
Will one hotel room actually take two therapists?
Often, but it needs checking rather than assuming. The usual arrangement is the bed plus a floor arrangement beside it, which wants clear space roughly the size of a second bed. Describe the room and the furniture in the first message and you will be told whether it works before anything is agreed.
Does a couples booking always need a deposit?
Half the applicable figure goes ahead on nearly every booking, and any booking with two therapists always does. A couple sharing one therapist follows the same rule as any other booking: a deposit unless it is a returning guest asking for an hour or two the same day at a city address.
who gives it
On the roster for this format
Who gives it
the message
Written enquiries, in English, at any hour of the clock
Say which door she is coming to
Give the building or the district, the hour you want her there and how long for. Anything about your own body that changes how the room should be set goes in the same message, and it is read as a practical note rather than as an apology.
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Longer questions go to contact@bodytobodymassageinamsterdam.com, which is read more slowly than a booking thread.